Author: Sonny Julius


Have you been struggling for years to accomplish some goals
without success? Are you wondering why you haven't been able to
lose the weight you want, be more energetic, earn more money,
learn new skills, be a better communicator, or accomplish
whatever desires and dreams you have?

Has it finally dawned on you in all these years that your
lifestyle is not one you are totally satisfied with? Do you
become so frustrated at times because you don't know the remedy
to your dilemma?

Well, I understand how you feel because I struggled for years
myself trying to accomplish my goals without success. I had that
spark in me but couldn't get the fire ignited to create a strong
enough "burning desire"

Then I finally learned why I wasn't achieving those dreams I so
desperately wanted. It was so simple I couldn't believe it The
reason was I hadn't become 'passionate" enough about my goals.
Does this sound like what has happened to you, too?

If this is true then let me tell you what you must do. You need
to develop a detailed plan for your life. You must "write your
goals down." Now you may have heard this before but decided it
wasn't necessary. Well friend I'm telling you it is not only
necessary to write them down but also to review them daily.

So believe me. This works. Unless you you do this you will fall
right back into the same "old rut" as before. Once you have a
list of goals pick a few from the list that you feel the most
"passionate" about. Next decide "why" you want to accomplish
them. If your "why" is strong enough you will find a way to
accomplish your goals.

Let me give you an example exactly what you must do. Let’s say
Your goal is: I want less stress in my life. Then you would
write Because I can’t relax – because I can’t control my anger –
because I’m afraid I may have a stroke or heart attack – I don’t
have any patience.

Next step is to write down the things that are required to
achieve this goal Here’s some ideas:

Take a time out away from what’s causing the stress. - walk away
from it for awhile – go do something else – find a place to
stretch out and relax – find someone to talk to about your
stress – begin to brainstorm what caused your stress in the
first place – make note of the consequences for letting your
stress continue.

Now address this problem on a daily basis even when you are not
stressful Plan daily exercises which might be things such as;
Joining a YMCA or health club and using their facilities for at
least 30 minutes a day – spent an allotted time each day in a
secluded and quiet place just relaxing and listening to soothing
music. Read articles and or books about managing stress. Just
designate at least one activity each day that addresses this
problem.

You will now be able to identify why you weren't successful in
the past and how to avoid failure in the future for achieving
your goals. You should no longer have any excuses for not
accomplishing your goals.

If you have finally decided the time has come to change your
lifestyle and the way you do things in more positive ways then
my methods are exactly what you need. Try them. You'll love the
feeling when your goals become reality. I guarantee it.

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